Help Solve These Proverbs

Can you solve these proverbs

People often write requesting the meaning and/or origin of a proverb, adage or saying.

Therefore I have commenced recording the items that have been the subject of questions, the results can be seen on the Definition of a Proverbs page.

September 2014 - The "Save the Proverbs" site was commenced in about 1999 and just grew. Today I am receiving proverbs of which I have not heard and can not locate a meaning. I need yout assistance to provide the meanings.

Please email me at if you can assist.

Below are proverbs that I have received and need assistance from you to solve.
The first four were all received in the one email.

Number 1. appears to have a meaning which is obvious eg. Don't get involved with strange events, you will surly get hurt. The other three need further explanation.
1. Thorn do not prick until we touch them
2. With one leg behind and one ahead means on the verge of
3. To get a tit of the dug get only a part of it
4. I have so much to give my brush as my crown can hold no more.

Won't have a bar of - Received about 2010.

I have not been able to locate an origin for the saying "won't have a bar of" such as "They won't have a bar of it".
The only bar I can think of, that may relate, is a bar of gold. Thus a treasure chest, perhaps it comes from pirates who would not even give one bar of gold.
A visitor suggests:- It has legal connotations. It could be equal to "won't give any hearing / won't hear of it."

12 April 2011 received an email from Amy, it seems to be the best solution yet.
"Probably has something to do with a bar of a song . . . i.e., doesn't want to hear any of it!

3 Jan 2012 received an email from David. I think the expression "won't have a bar of it," refers to music: They can't stand to hear even a bar of that song. HAVE is sometimes used to mean HEAR, esp. in BritSpeech. For instance, "Let's have a little of that song you always give us when you're drunk."

30 November 2015 received an email from Anthony. We also don’t know the origin of the expression but have two theories.

Our favourite, since the origin is New Zealand and Australia and there were several gold rushes here, is that this is ‘won’t have a bar of [fools] gold’ relating to people collecting valueless minerals rather than gold.

The second even less substantiated idea is that it since the meaning is about disgust and zero tolerance for something is whether some returned servicemen from the many wars (Boer, WW1 etc) refused military decorations and therefore ‘would not have a bar’.

Email me, please.

Fence Posts

January 2010
Today I received the following email
My mom, who has passed away, had a saying that went something like this
"Fog on the fence post means" and I can't remember if it meant ice or snow, can you help me ?

This started me searching Google for an answer as I had not heard the saying before. Which led me to many sayings about 'fence posts'. Once again the rural aspect of old sayings rears it's head. There are an amazingly large number of 'fence post' saying so I decided to list a few.

Between You, Me and the fence post.
Means that the person to whom you are speaking and you are the only ones who will ever know what is being said.
He would argue with a fence post.
Indicates stubbornness.
Some days you're the dog - some days you're the fence post.
Refers to dogs using fence posts as a toilet.
Deaf as a post (fence post).
Refers to the days before hearing aids.
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
You see oportunities everywhere, except where you are at present.

If you have another fence post saying please email me.


Find the Missing Word
Can you fill in the blank

I have been receiving requests for missing words. Must be some new game on the Internet. The following are some of the requests.
Procrastination is the ----- of time
There is a proverb Procrastination is the ----- of time I could not remember the full saying but I had heard of it so I keyed "Procrastination is the" "of time" (including the inverted commas) into Google and found the answer - Procrastination is the thief of time.
"Wind and sun had ----- his face"
I did not have a clue, so I went to Google and entered "Wind and sun had" "his face" including the inverted commas. It provided 55 answers and wouldn't you know it the very last one was this answer which I like.
Wind and sun had weathered his face.
As you can see if you enter your request into Google as two phrases with each phrase included in quotation marks you will probably locate the answer you require.
See Using Search Engines for more examples.

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